Christmas memories have been flooding
my mind and unlike the last few years these memories are good. Our
favorite Christmas tradition was to do something good for someone
else usually anonymously. It brought a sense of joy and fun. My sons
were particularly good at sneaking a package to a door, ringing the
doorbell and running to a predetermined hiding place. This took study
and planning. They felt like secret agents!!
One of my favorite Christmas
surprises was the year that we did the manger sets. The year before I
had bought five or six manger sets at Wal-Mart during the after
Christmas sales. We wrapped each piece of the nativity scene and
attached a corresponding scripture to it. We numbered them and placed
them in baskets with instructions to open one a night. The first gift
opened was the manger. The last gift opened was the baby Jesus on
Christmas day.
The hustle and bustle that went into
this project was fun and provided many teaching moments but we did
hit a snag. I hadn't noticed that one of the sets I had bought had
dark skinned, Hispanic type figures. The list we had prayerfully put
together consisted of only white people. What were we going to do
with that one?
I pondered all the options. I felt
that we did indeed need to give it to someone. But who? I prayed some
more and a young couple in our neighborhood kept popping into my
head. But they were very white from a very white family in town. I
kept asking, really? I kept being told yes. So, we did it.
The next year they found out that
they couldn't have children. They began the long, arduous task of
adoption. They had made the decision to adopt children that were in
the Family Services system. After a long wait, two young sisters were
given to them. They were Hispanic. Over the years, they adopted three
more children. All of them were of Hispanic descent.
One year, after their third
adoption I was in the house for a neighborhood party. It was
Christmas time. The simple nativity scene was set up in a prominent
place. One of the guests remarked on it's uniqueness. Then I was
privileged to hear “the rest of the story”.
She related how delighted they were
at the Christmas surprise package and how much fun they had opening
each figure. But they had been confused by the skin color. Maybe it
had been a mistake, maybe this was supposed to be for someone
else...but they were tickled anyway.
Each year they set up the scene with
the same delight and confusion. Until the Christmas after they had
adopted the girls. This time as she unwrapped and set up each figure,
her eyes filled with tears. The figures looked like her new
daughters! She related that she realized the gift had not been a
mistake but a miracle.
And I agree. It was a miracle. A
gift from an all knowing God. I have never told her that it was my
family that gave her the basket. But how privileged I felt to know
that a loving God had used my family to help Him. This Christmas,
look around you, open your eyes and your heart, find something to do
for someone. God can do all things but sometimes he needs human hands
to help. Be those hands and you will truly experience the Christmas
spirit. That's the view from my side of the street, what's yours?.
Beautiful story.
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